The Only Thing I Love More Than Reading is Sharing

The only thing I love more than writing is reading.
The only thing I love more than reading is sharing what I've read.
This is by Shel Dougherty and I think her son will be okay.

How to Scar an 8 Year Old


Have a great laugh and a great day everyone!

PS: The Kama Sutra Sweet Almond Oil works well too.

Raynaud's : What Works for Me.

Exercise. It’s good for all blood vessels. Yoga and breathing exercises help me cope with pain. Stress is a HUGE trigger for Raynaud's for me. Yoga has helped me cope. I started with Kundalini Yoga in 2005. I just started studying Anusara yoga one on one with a yogi at Yoga Living Studio here in Temecula. It's helping a great deal. Remember, exercise is always a good idea.

Eating well is also a good idea, but beware of anyone who tries to sell you herbs specifically for symptom or diseases. For example, cayenne pepper is excellent for circulation, but if you have any type of Reflux, it will damage your esophagus. I mention the alternative medicine because if you seek out a yogi or yoga instructor focus on the exercise. Chanting and movement doesn't cause exacerbation of symptoms.

In 1994, My Raynaud's was very aggressive. I was in college, had to change my major, break up with my boyfriend who I moved to Wisconsin with from California. Some of us have stressors we're not even aware of. I was in denial, which was the stressor I ignored and found some poor ways of dealing with it.

Raynaud's is a response by the sympathetic nervous system- fight or flight. It is an unconscious reaction to a threat. Now that we're no longer hunter/gatherers threatened by predators our stress has changed, but the fight or flight response is still present. How will we feed ourselves? Take care of our offspring? Deal with our environment? (i.e. cold) Take care of ourselves?

As someone who experienced Raynaud’s at a young age, I would suggest to anyone with Raynaud's to find ways to cope with stress such as yoga, meditation & exercise. Don't hunt for stressors if you don't know what they are. That just creates more stress. Focus on the coping so that you are prepared for whatever life hands you. Something as simple as a manicure or pedicure once a week is a stress reliever. A massage once a month is great. My biggest regret is not doing yoga in my 20's. I discovered it in my 30's. Find a studio near you. Keep working with your doctors. I have some posts about what happened to me on my blog. I don't want to scare anyone so if you read them, please keep in mind this was almost 20 yrs ago, before Viagra and no one believed me when I reported my onset of symptom. Back then my doctors wrote it off as "hysterical female syndrome".

Here is the website to the Yoga Studio I go to called Living Yoga Andrea; the owner is also an excellent source of information as well. You may be able to find a place similar to it in your area if Temecual is too far.

One more thing:
My mom used to massage my hands gently, when she could and when I lived with her. Just throwing that out there. If I was sitting around watching TV, I'd take a wet towel, put it in the microwave until warm, coat my hands with lotion (I now use Kama Sutra Almond oil- works better than anything I've tried and smells great) cover my lotioned or oiled hands with towel and relax while watching TV or hanging out. Then after the towel cooled, my mom would gently massage my fingers, great for my circulation and my mind. A partner, roomate or a good friend also make great massage buddies. It's one way friends and family can help when they feel helpless.

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Parenting from the Couch by Christina Stevens: A Must Read.

I haven't given up on writing. I've been doing research and I have been coming across some great posts that put the chronic illness experience into perspective. This is another one of those articles.
Parenting from the Couch

Monday Blog Share

I found some new to me blogs. I just love to share things I find fun, educating and inspring.

Happy Monday!

Adventure in Estrogen

Neurologica Blog

Bad Astronomy

Back Packing Dad

If I list too many, people may not check these out. If you are not included in these lists, don't be disappointed. I still love to read you. I just want these lists to have meaning and not overwhelm.

Have a great Monday everyone!

Paying People To Stay Home

Paying People To Stay Home

Our 20 Year Anniversary. Yes, me and Raynaud's Here's some Ideas From an Old couple.

Yes, it’s been 20 with Raynaud's. Here's a timeline list.

1. My doctors didn't believe me.

2. My Doctors were not sure what the hell it was.

3. Its Scleroderma. CREST is not just my favorite toothpaste anymore.

4. Happy 20th with Raynaud's! (Should I register at Macy's or REI for TEVA sandals?)

One good thing that I have from my 20 relationship with Raynaud's is a wealth of information of what not to do. Even better, things that have helped that I can share with others. REMEMBER: These are things that work for me. Check with your doctor. Nothing is ever one size fits all.

1. It doesn't matter what climate you live in, just take precautions and be plan to be cold all the time. It's a real timesaver.

2. Tune out people who tell you just because they aren't cold it means you are just "oversensitive", because they are uninformed and believe they are helpful.

3. Except when sleeping, I always wear 3 shirts to keep my core temperature even. For example: a short sleeve shirt always has a tank top or something like it underneath. Then I either wear or bring a light sweater or jacket. My rule: undershirt, over shirt, jacket. It may be 100 degrees outside, but transitioning into an air-conditioned environment can trigger a Raynaud's attack. Bringing along a third layer helps prevent an attack. I love wearing a thin cotton long sleeve shirt underneath a cute short sleeve. I can wear it with shorts or long pants. I also use a thin cotton long sleeve under casual sundresses with some converse or cute sneakers. It gives me an excuse to wear socks. I notice when my feet are warm, my core temperature stays consistent.

5. If I have a Raynaud's attack and have no other options, a quick way to warm my hands is to (icky warning) put my hands under my armpits (over clothing), or even better, someone else's (They are usually warmer)

6. When having a Raynaud's attack, warm water can help, but I tend to make it too hot which can cause further tissue damage, so be careful.

7. Massages help. Massage Envy is very affordable and their therapists are well trained. Never be afraid to ask about a therapist's experience. ALWAYS observe their cleanliness practices and don't be afraid to ask them about it. Let them know if you are on immunosuppressant drugs.

8. Weekly manicures and monthly pedicures are awesome. Never ever go to a "discount" or nail place, especially if it looks like an assembly line. You will get an infection in these places. Keep in mind, just because a salon may charge more doesn't always mean they are consistent with cleanliness practices. Ask and observe. Some high end salons have memberships or work out deals with frequent patrons. Don't be afraid to ask, because everyone has to live on a budget these days. Always let your nail technician know about your circulation problem and if you are on immunosuppressant drugs. The massage does help quite a bit. If someone ever pulls out a razor and tries to "trim your calluses" with it, always say no and report them to consumer affairs. They are illegal to use in salons. A pumice stone or a file is the only thing needed to soften calluses in a salon.

9. Find a good podiatrist. They are great for keeping calluses under control and the only ones that should ever use a razor to trim back calluses.

10. Make sure your shoes are supportive and comfortable. I have no fat pads on the bottoms of my feet. I even have to wear shoes in the shower. If you notice pain when you walk, ask your doctor or podiatrist about custom made inserts. I haven't tried the Dr. Scholls in the drug store, but I bet that would be an affordable solution if not covered by insurance.

11. Occupational therapists can be helpful. Beware of being treated like a carpal tunnel patient. I had good insurance at one time (I now have Medicare and veteran's healthcare) and a private OT chain treated me like a cash cow. It wasn't the therapist, it was the business office. I learned a lot from my 1st OT in 1996 after my digital sympathectomy.

12. Digital sympathectomy. In 1996, Viagra was not available, so a digital sympathectomy seemed like a good idea at the time. There are so many vasodilators available these days, surgical sympathectomy are needed less. Today, I take Viagra 4xs a day, plus niphedepine once a day. These meds can cause headaches because of the rush of blood flow to the brain. I have some coffee in the morning to keep that under control. My doctor knows about it.

14. Last but not least, the very best thing that helps keep my Raynaud's in check is exercise. If you can squeeze in just 5 or 10 minutes of constant movement a day, you will notice a difference. I have. I tried to commit to doing yoga every day, but found it difficult to fit it into my schedule. Sometimes I just put on some music and dance for one or 2 songs and that movement help get blood to tips of my fingers and toes. I’m a terrible dancer, but my 7 year old son and I do a little boogie after he gets dressed in the morning before school. When my son's not here, my dogs will at least keep me company. They look at me like I'm crazy, but they can keep a secret. I have progressed from planning to exercise and never fallowing through to adding 5 minutes of it to my day. I have started going to the YMCA when they have things like kids cardio or kids zumba. My son has some fun while I walk on the treadmill.

15. If your feet get cold quickly and are sensitive to the surface of the bottom of the pool or wherever you swim, don't be afraid to wear some shoes. Aqua socks are useless to me because the bottoms of my feet are just bones with no cushion. TEVA makes a great sandal made to wear in and out of the water, and they look good too. It takes some getting used to swimming with them on, but the injury prevention is worth it. I love mine. I even use them in the hot tub.

16. Kama Sutra Oil is the only thing that keeps my the skin on my hands and from cracking. I use their Sweet Almond Oil. Not just for hot monkey love.

Representatives Argument Lacking.

“The Troops Come First” says REP Mike Pearce R-Indiana on the House Floor today.

I'm watching the House debate on C-Span. I hear, "We can fund the troops." Maybe it's me, but that statement just feels unfinished. Allow to me to add what they are leaving out.

We can fund our troops by cutting WIC. A service many of the E-1, E-2, E-3 and E-4 families use.

We can fund our troops by cutting costs to Veteran’s Benefits. The troops will one day be Veterans and have family members who use Veteran’s Benefits for their healthcare.

We can fund our troops by cutting education. Many troops have children who receive public education.

We can fund the troops by cutting regulation for clean water, safe food and medications. Many families of troops drink water, eat and take medications.

We can fund our troops by cutting Social Security, a service that all troops pay into, and their family members use. (“removing 66% of seniors off Medicare” Rep. Sheila Jackson Lee)

This does not feel like they wish to take care of the troops. Their argument would be solid if the troops did not have families or loved ones. They are leaving out those the Troops think about while they are away from their families and loved ones. If one were to really care about the troops,they would fight for things that matter to the troops in addition to their paychecks, which help- but are just a part of the picture.

This is what I have so far. Please join me in the debate here or on Twitter.

Thank you for reading.